What is a Dakini?

Dakini * is an embodiment of pure awareness,

a muse for the heart & A guide into the world of sacred sexuality.

With infinite compassion,

courage and wisdom

she guides us

in the path of transformation

of our negative emotions, fears, shadows & burdens

into the luminosity of pure awareness.

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I have been studying and working deeply with the body & its expression for over 10 years
through dance, massage and erotic magic – I offer sessions catered to YOUR NEEDS & DESIRES – please ask!

Every session is different, even with the same person.
Every moment of life, as well as every part of the body
has a wisdom to teach us, even the painful or numb ones…

Being there for another,
to allow them to unfold ALL of who they are,
in pure essence, is a service to life.
My work is to guide the natural flow of eros
through my touch, gaze, breath and sound.

Desire is key.

Desire is key to both our suffering and our liberation.

I desire… and the desire fills me with my passion and my will.
Desire connects us to life, creativity and expansion beyond ourselves.
When it is flowing from an abundance of inspiration, we fall in love with life.

It may also express as need, greed and excessive lust.
That is when you feel empty and seek to be filled from the outside.
And we may work to turn the desire inside, to awaken the body to more life.

A hunger to be loved also has a direct connection to our inner child.
It is an opportunity to heal years of disconnection from our authentic self.

Dakinis have always guided aspirants to transform their hunger into a passion of the heart and a fire of the soul.

* My reference to ‘Dakini’s comes from the Tibetan tantric notion of the feminine principle manifest in nature, in images, as an internal meditational concept as well as through the female body –

This is how I work with sexual energy and with both men and women.

photo by Anne Lomberg, Berlin

My heart shed oil, webs [and] steel, [then] blossomed into a large pink flower. I removed all the suppression, poison, grime and denial I had put it through.
Together we grew a heart that could serve humanity.
A healing oracle energetic dancing dark angel mother lover gift – what a tear inducing blessing.

James, Australia

Why me?

Emanating through me, when I open to it, is the dakini-principle: compassion and creative inspiration – it has always been my essence, accentuated by this gorgeous embodiment.

I am also human – when stepping into session space, my intention is to allow my body, touch and presence to serve LOVE and to offer touch and guidance to your body to get in touch with its innocence, its creative spark, the current of life.
Erotic energy seems to be KEY in awakening these.

There is a big difference in excitatory vs relaxed arousal.
Rather than playing with friction and shadowy lust vs disgust, and separation – my approach is to be with, to tempt the body to find its authentic flow, to play the polarity until it dissolves.

The work of the dakini is also to help dive deeper into the darker aspects of psyche, to integrate them. She is not afraid of the shadow, in anyone.

She is also adept in awakening sensations of the skin, cells, organs and the electro-magnetic system. But the ultimate frequency she holds is that of nonduality – the activation of our buddhic (wisdom) nature.

Through any means: touch, breath, emotions, light hypnotherapy and visualizations, archetypal role play and imagination, she finds the tools to guide the soul out of the limitations of the mind and into the present moment, into full awareness.

In the old, adepts would come humble, to learn to tame their desire, to not let it run in the unconscious and control them – and the Dakini would help the aspirants meet themselves – to integrate and balance mind and body.

photograph by Aleira Moon

“You have been such an inspiration for me to shamelessly express my sensuality in ways that might be not as conventionally or commonly accepted by society.

Your instincts wide open when massaging and dancing, your intuition and awareness fully present in the room, I can sense the peacefulness of it, the delicious slowness that makes everything you do so incredibly powerful and filled with intention and attention.
You, with all you do and all you are, a fresh breeze of singular passion.

Clara, Berlin

1-on-1 Sessions

feature elements of

  • tantric massage (to awaken the body’s sensuality)
  • somatic sensing (to allow the nervous system to feel)
  • addressing emotional wounds, fears and unconscious aspects of the psyche if they surface
    (including predator/victim dynamics, birth trauma)
  • working through sexual issues – fear of intimacy – body shame – self pleasure – ejaculation – jealousy
  • any specific themes or challenges or kinks you wish to work with

All sessions are catered to uniquely you. Guided by deep intuition and instinct, my job is to expand you to the next stage of your embodied evolution – through creating intimacy and supporting the emergence of the real you. A session may also serve as a reference point of easeful intimacy.

I sometimes suggest working with tools – for example shibari rope – rather than an aesthetic kink technique, it is to help you relax and go into deeper states of surrender.

Mainly I use fragrant oils, breath and sound, vibration, and phallic addendums when requested.

A truly beautiful evening, thank you. 
I appreciate the safe space you create, it allowed me a greater sense of freedom to be. Eyes and heart opening wider each day. A good teacher helps.

…all I can think of that it was the most authentic expression of love that I have felt. I have been pondering the nature of dependence and how it affects my need for love. There is more to learn…”

male client, Australia

“Mia sees her life as a calling to touch people deeply and soothe them at their core. To her, accompanying women and men on their path to & within a vibrant and fulfilling sexuality, is a matter of the heart. 
[She has a] remarkable sensitivity and nearly magical softness…

Joe, male collegue and teacher, Berlin

“Your touches have opened another level of energy in my body, it raises much easier and higher up the spine now – I imagine this is thanks to these visualisations you activated in my heart (keeper of the heart) and in the back of my head (wild animal), which helped me both to be better integrated in my body and my sexuality.”

male client, Berlin

I also offer sessions for couples
and training for tantric bodyworkers who want to deepen into dakini work

My background


What calls me to do this work is dedication to the evolution of intimacy within humanity and my own experience of how it happens through embodiment.

I have studied psychology, creative arts and dance/movement therapy and my own practice is the use of creative introspection through poetry, movement and vocals.

My spiritual studies have been in tantric yoga (the left hand mystic path) and more recently in esoteric cosmology via a modern day ‘mystery school’.
I have been offering individual and group spaces (called ‘temples’) for over 4 years now, as places to explore what intimacy is, how it looks, feels and flows authentically – though not always an explicitly erotic experience, I include arousal of our curiosity or creativity as part of eros.

The ultimate goal for me is to find the beauty of life through any means – quantum physics, sufism, shamanism, reductionist atheism.. all roads lead home to nothingness.

My touch is founded in intuitive massage, deep tissue and taoist bodywork and I have been trained in erotic bodywork including genital touch and have 7 years of professional experience working with this delicate art.

Having worked with dance, creative therapies and body work with people of all ages from pretty much every continent/economic background – I do not take anyone for granted. **please reach out if you know you are to do this work and do not have finances to do so

My ongoing and future research is into the realms of void, neuroscience, psychedelic therapies, use of ritual performance to tap into collective consciousness and creating a culture of more loving, authentic relating.